Month: January 2024

Test the spirit

There’s a big misconception that’s been going around for years amongst many people. I’m sure you’ve heard someone say and you’ve probably said no one can judge me. This is a human statement. I agree that we shouldn’t gossip about the actions or behaviors of others because they’re the results of something bigger and we’re called to lift each other up.

Yet we can judge the spirit that’s influencing their actions or behaviors. Let me explain further.

The fruit of the Holy Spirit is….
LOVE
JOY
PEACE
PATIENCE
KINDNESS
GOODNESS
FAITHFULNESS
GENTLENESS
SELF-CONTROL

Galatians 5:22-23

When you encounter someone and they display any or all of these, you know the Holy Spirit is guiding them in that moment.

But if you encounter someone and they display the opposite, then you are speaking to the fleshly part of that person.

Moral: Test your spirit and the spirit of others according to God’s Word.

John 4:1 NIV
”Dear friends, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits to see whether they are from God, because many false prophets have gone out into the world.“
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‭‭Ephesians‬ ‭5‬:‭6‬-‭9‬, ‭11‬ ‭NIV‬‬
”Let no one deceive you with empty words, for because of such things God’s wrath comes on those who are disobedient. Therefore do not be partners with them. For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them.“

Tuesday Transformation | We Are Overcomers

Welcome to Tuesday Transformation! This is your weekly dose of encouragement to keep moving forward through the trials of life. Remember, “I can do all things through Christ which strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13

In the midst of life’s challenges, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed and forget the strength that lies within us. But today, I want to remind you, dear brother and sister, that we are overcomers.

Our faith is not a shield that protects us from every storm, but a compass that guides us through them. It’s the anchor that holds us steady in turbulent waters, the light that shines even in the darkest nights.

Remember the words of Romans 8:37: “No, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him who loved us.” This isn’t just a verse; it’s a promise. We are victorious, not because of our own might, but because of the One who walks beside us.

So, take a deep breath, beloved. Let go of the fear, the doubt, the weight of the world. Remember, you are not alone. You have a mighty God who fights for you, a community that stands beside you, and a faith that empowers you to rise above any obstacle.

Today, let’s choose to be overcomers. Let’s face our challenges with courage, knowing that God is with us every step of the way. Let’s celebrate our victories, big and small, and offer support to those still battling their own storms.

Remember you are stronger than you think. You are loved beyond measure. And you are, without a doubt, an overcomer.

P.S. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, please know that you’re not alone. Reach out to a friend, family member, or your spiritual community for support. There’s always someone who cares and wants to help you navigate your storms.

Freedom in Christ

”You, my brothers and sisters, were called to be free. But do not use your freedom to indulge the flesh; rather, serve one another humbly in love. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” If you bite and devour each other, watch out or you will be destroyed by each other.

So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh. For the flesh desires what is contrary to the Spirit, and the Spirit what is contrary to the flesh. They are in conflict with each other, so that you are not to do whatever you want. But if you are led by the Spirit, you are not under the law.

The acts of the flesh are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like. I warn you, as I did before, that those who live like this will not inherit the kingdom of God.

But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, Those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. Let us not become conceited, provoking and envying each other.“

Galatians 5:13-22, 24-26 NIV

It truly feels unnatural when a loved one passes away because God never intended for separation. Death was introduced due to sin. However, Jesus Christ entered the world to reunite us back together one day. Praise His Holy name!!

Losing a loved one is something we will never get used to regardless of how many years pass. Yes, we learn to adjust to their absence ( to a certain degree) but we never get over it.

October will make 5 years since my mom transitioned and it still doesn’t seem real sometimes. 5 years is a long time without hugging her, hearing her voice, spending time with her, etc. I truly give God praise for continuing to carry me through this devastating loss. The hope that continues to drive me is that I will reunite with her again one day.

Grief is hard. Grief is painful. Grief is real. Grief is ongoing.

AND

God is a comforter. God is real. God never leaves us.

Truly our faith is what helps our hearts mend and gives us the ability to live after loss.

Turn to Jesus today and let Him carry your burden of grief. He can handle it.

I would love to send you a free copy of my ebook Dancing with Grief. One Step at a Time. It is a great resource to help you navigate the difficulties of grief. Inbox me your email address and I’ll send it right over.

Navigating New Paths: Grieving and Relationships

Grief is a storm that sweeps through our lives, leaving wreckage in its wake. It changes everything, including the landscape of our friendships and relationships. The bonds we once knew may feel strained, distant, or even broken.

It’s easy to feel alone in this, to wonder if something’s wrong, or if you’re somehow pushing people away. But the truth is, grief is a unique experience, and how we navigate it varies greatly.

Some friends may withdraw, unsure how to offer support. Others may bombard you with advice or try to “fix” things, which can feel overwhelming. It’s okay to set boundaries, to explain your needs, even if it means taking a step back from certain connections.

Don’t be afraid to reach out to those who understand. Maybe it’s a friend who’s experienced loss, a grief support group, or even a therapist. Talking about your pain, your confusion, your anger, can be a lifeline in the storm.

Remember, friendship is a two-way street. Sometimes, during grief, it’s more about receiving than giving. Let your friends know what you need, whether it’s a listening ear, a shoulder to cry on, or simply a distraction.

And most importantly, be kind to yourself. Your grief is valid, your feelings are real, and you don’t have to rush through this journey.

Take your time, hold onto the precious memories, and know that even in the darkest moments, there is still light, still hope, still love.

P.S. If you’re struggling to find resources or support, please don’t hesitate to reach out. I’m here for you.

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Finding Hope after Loss: Grief Support Class Starts Soon

Loss leaves a shadow, and you might feel like navigating it alone. But the truth is, grief is a shared journey, and you don’t have to walk it on your own.

I am offering a 12 week grief support class, a safe space where you can connect with others who understand what you’re going through.

Here, you’ll find:

📍Compassionate understanding: Share your experiences and emotions without judgment, feeling heard and supported.

📍Practical tools: Learn coping mechanisms to manage difficult emotions and adjust to your new reality.

📍Shared connections: Find strength and solace in shared stories and the knowledge that you’re not alone.

📍Hope for the future: Discover how to carry your loved one’s memory with you as you rebuild and step into new chapters.

The class starts on January 15th and welcomes everyone dealing with the loss of a loved one, no matter how recent or how you’re grieving.

Taking the first step is often the hardest, but reaching out can make a world of difference. Join us, and let’s face this difficult journey of grief together, one step at a time. ✨

Click this link to invest in your healing! 👩🏾‍💻https://form.jotform.com/233347006088152

God is with you ❤️

Sometimes life throws a curveball. Maybe it’s a storm cloud overhead, a wave that knocks you off your feet, or a path that feels lost in the fog. ☁️

But even in the midst of the chaos, remember: God’s got this. ✨

He’s the sunshine peeking through the clouds, the hand reaching out to steady you, and the lighthouse guiding you through the fog. ☀️

So take a deep breath, lift your eyes to the heavens, and trust in His unwavering love. He’s with you every step of the way, ready to embrace you with His grace and fill your heart with hope.

Hope for your shattered pieces!

God wants us to know that there is hope in despair. No matter what situation you’re battling, He can take those broken pieces and make something new. All He ask is that we believe in Him and Trust His Word. What better time to become more intentional about your relationship with God than the 1st day of a new year.

Surrender your life to Him today and watch His power flow through you 🙌🏾.